On TikTok, a person who runs the profile @the_happyfamily posted a video. In it, you can see a woman pulling and yelling at a child.
"A moment earlier, this woman was cursing at a crying boy in a stroller" - reads the description. You can see the angry woman shouting at the child, telling him to "shut up." The author of the video decided he had to react. The man, who had his own child in a stroller, entered the store and found the stranger in the fruit and vegetable section.
Could you please not treat the child that way? I heard you cursing at him and pulling him. Please don't do that to him. It's a small child; please think about it
- the man said. The woman immediately apologized for her behavior and agreed that she wouldn't act that way anymore. It was clear she was embarrassed by the comment she received.
The TikTok video received several thousand comments. Many people praised the father for not being indifferent to the child's distress and not hesitating to call out the woman. "You did very well, bravo for the courage, a lot of people don't react!" wrote one woman. "Bravo for the reaction!", "Don't be afraid to react, bravo," "It would have been better to ask if she needed help; she might have been tired. I don't condone that behavior, but often a conversation is all it takes," another user commented.
There were also many voices defending the woman who yelled at the child. People pointed out that anyone's "nerves can snap," and perhaps the stranger doesn't usually behave this way. "People who don't have kids won't understand that it's human nature, and sometimes when you're exhausted by a child's crying, nerves can snap, and you might yell—everyone is only human," "At least she pulled herself together; sometimes you have moments of breakdown, and I believe this lady just had one of those moments… that she already understood," "I also sometimes can't take it, and my nerves get the best of me," wrote some users. Let's not forget that the role of a parent is very challenging. Anyone can have moments of weakness and lose their temper, but it's important to be aware that yelling is not an effective parenting method.