Despite the wide availability of materials on sexual education and "adult" content, sex remains a taboo topic in Poland. This doesn’t mean that people refrain from it, though. According to a survey by Ipsos conducted last year, we simply feel embarrassed to talk about it. However, this doesn’t stop people from fantasizing - and Polish women are particularly good at it.
Polish Women Are Shy About Discussing Their Fantasies, but Their Dreams Are Bold
Sexual fantasies are completely natural, and Poles are aware of this. According to the Ipsos survey presented by the Kultura Trójmiasto.pl website, 91 percent of respondents believe this. About 45 percent of women and 70 percent of men admit to fantasizing. However, the actual numbers might be higher, as 65 percent of women and 58 percent of men find it difficult to talk openly about their needs due to embarrassment.
I believe that such experiments can positively influence the quality of both solo and partnered sex
- sexologist Paulina Jęczmień revealed in an interview with WP Kobieta.
Indeed, realizing fantasies can significantly spice up our sex lives. However, it’s important to discuss them delicately with your partner and consider different reactions. We recently wrote about a case where revealing a rather controversial sexual fantasy did not go as planned.
What Turns Polish Women On the Most?
It turns out that at the top of women’s deepest desires is experimenting with sex toys. This is followed by fantasies about encounters with a stranger and those in public places. Other popular fantasies include group sex, reenacting movie scenes, oral play, role-playing, and BDSM, which involves elements of sadomasochism.
As you can see, we prefer bold sexual imaginations over those that are vanilla and romantic
- the sexologist concluded.
As mentioned above, it’s worth bringing your sexual fantasies to life. However, it’s important to pay attention to a few key points. Most importantly, all individuals involved in the realization of the fantasy must be aware of it and give their consent. It’s also advisable to discuss the fantasy delicately with your partner and be prepared for their reactions—which can range from enthusiasm to refusal. If your partner is open to it, having an honest conversation about your fantasies is crucial to ensure that their realization doesn’t end in disappointment.
