The profession of a matchmaker still exists and hasn't been completely replaced by matchmaking agencies or dating websites. One such person is Anna Guzior-Rutyna, who works daily to connect people in pairs and helps her clients find love. What does this job entail? The matchmaker revealed the realities of today's dating scene and the challenges people face when searching for a romantic relationship.
Are There Matchmakers in Poland? Anna Guzior-Rutyna Has Been Helping People Find Love for Many Years.
Matchmaker Anna doesn't lack interest in her services. The number of clients only increases each year. The people who have the most difficulty finding a partner are usually those who lack time. Anna Guzior-Rutyna's clients include lawyers, doctors, officials, and even celebrities. The dating expert admitted in an interview with kobieta.wp.pl that women are more likely to seek her services and that they have higher expectations compared to men.
The rule is simple. The older she is and the more successful she has become, the more she expects from her future partner. A successful woman won't be impressed by someone earning the minimum wage
- she notes. The matchmaker listed the most desired traits in men by successful women:
- taller than 180 cm,
- proper education,
- financial independence,
- owning property,
- professional success.
From my observations, only 5 to 10 percent of the men they meet fulfill their expectations. Women who earn well and hold high positions prefer to be alone rather than with just anyone
- she explains.
Why Can't I Find a Partner? More and More Men Are Also Turning to Matchmakers.
According to the matchmaker, men are typically visual creatures, and this hasn't changed over the years. A partner's attractiveness is important to them. They also value the absence of bad habits more than education or financial status. The most desired traits by men are nurturing, femininity, and gentleness.
She should be warm and someone with whom he doesn't have to compete. It's clear that she must be kind and family-oriented. Her earnings don't matter much to him
- matchmaker Anna said in an interview with kobieta.onet.pl.
