First dates spark a lot of curiosity about the other person’s views on various topics. However, there are certain questions that should be avoided, as they might prevent a second date from happening. So, what should you avoid asking?
What Not to Discuss on a First Date? The Expert Has No Doubts - Avoid This Topic
According to a report by the dating app Plenty of Fish, 49% of people have been on a date where the other person didn’t ask a single question. Conversation should be a two-way street, with the exchange of opinions and viewpoints. Therefore, asking questions is important, but it shouldn’t feel intrusive. Blaine Anderson, a dating coach from Austin, Texas, and founder of Dating by Blaine, explained to cnbc.com that if your date mentions having a crazy day at work, it's good to ask a "supportive question". For example, ask what made their day crazy and how they feel about it. A follow-up question shows that you care and helps deepen the connection.
However, there are questions best left unasked. Blaine Anderson pointed out one topic in particular: past relationships. "There’s no need to bring your exes into a first date. Be present and focus on the here and now. Be fun and ask questions that bring a smile to the other person’s face," she said.
What Questions Should You Avoid on a First Date? "Refusing Would Be Awkward"
Grace Lee, a dating specialist and founder of A Good First Date, suggests that even if the first meeting goes well and it seems like the other person is happy, it’s better not to ask about a second date. "If you ask someone if they want to go on a second date, 99% of the time they’ll say yes because rejecting you would be awkward," she told CNBC. Lee explained that even if the date is a success, it's best not to drag it out. If the other person mentions wanting to go home, it’s better not to push them for another coffee or drink. If there was real chemistry during the date, a second meeting will naturally follow.
